{"id":8706,"date":"2014-09-03T23:27:15","date_gmt":"2014-09-04T06:27:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/?p=8706"},"modified":"2023-11-08T10:32:54","modified_gmt":"2023-11-08T18:32:54","slug":"language-development-in-children-3-false-facts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/language-development\/language-development-in-children-3-false-facts\/","title":{"rendered":"Language Development in Children: 3 False Facts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As with most\u00a0things, there are common misconceptions about speech and language development in children, undoubtedly confusing all of us parents! Should we be reading the Wall Street Journal to our <a title=\"babies in utero?\" href=\"http:\/\/www.babycentre.co.uk\/a1049781\/can-my-baby-learn-in-the-uterus\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">babies in utero<\/a>? Should we feel\u00a0self-conscious when engaging in baby talk with our 6 month old? Are we doing damage? We are here to help clarify some of the most common <strong>False<\/strong> <strong>Facts<\/strong> about language development in your child.\u00a0Of course, it&#8217;s important that you are patient. All parents\u00a0can&#8217;t wait until that day when their\u00a0baby begins to talk!\u00a0\u00a0BUT, each child progresses at a different rate, so be patient, it will come. Your best bet is to understand what is true and what is false about language development in your child.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<h3>False Fact 1: No Words by Age 1 Means <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">RED FLAG!<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Many parents raise the red flag if their child has not spoken a single, clear word by the age of one. However, most children actually say their first words between the ages of 12 and 18 months AND, often times those words are still a bit unintelligible. Do not be alarmed if you haven&#8217;t heard a &#8220;mommy&#8221; or &#8220;daddy&#8221; at her first birthday. Sure, it&#8217;s hard not to compare when your next door neighbor&#8217;s child seems to be speaking in full sentences at 13 months. \u00a0All children develop their speech and language skills at different rates. It would be time to raise the red flag however, when your child has yet to speak a word by 18 months and 2 years old. Or, if your child has been using words and suddenly stops talking by this age, or\u00a0his language skills fail to increase or expand.<\/p>\n<p>Does &#8220;ba ba&#8221; and &#8220;da da&#8221; count? You bet! The words do not have to be completely accurate or even completely clear to be considered as speaking words. If you are concerned,\u00a0Parenting Magazine has a very simple yet useful\u00a0timeline of baby language development from birth to 15 months.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1844\" style=\"width: 490px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/Language-Development-for-Preschool-Education.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1844\" class=\"wp-image-1844 size-full lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/Language-Development-for-Preschool-Education.png\" alt=\"Language Development for Preschool Education\" width=\"480\" height=\"366\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/Language-Development-for-Preschool-Education.png 480w, https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/Language-Development-for-Preschool-Education-300x228.png 300w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 480px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 480\/366;\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1844\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image source: Childhealth-explanation.com<\/p><\/div>\n<h3>False Fact 2: Using Baby Talk Slows Down Language Development<\/h3>\n<div id=\"attachment_8717\" style=\"width: 204px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Screenshot-2014-08-26-11.23.46.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8717\" class=\"wp-image-8717 size-medium lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Screenshot-2014-08-26-11.23.46-194x300.png\" alt=\"Baby Talk\" width=\"194\" height=\"300\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Screenshot-2014-08-26-11.23.46-194x300.png 194w, https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Screenshot-2014-08-26-11.23.46.png 345w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 194px) 100vw, 194px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 194px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 194\/300;\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-8717\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Does Baby Talk Accelerate Language Development? Image courtesy of <a title=\"viewfromadrawbridge.wordpress.com\" href=\"http:\/\/viewfromadrawbridge.wordpress.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">theviewfromadrawbridge.wordpress.com<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<p>We&#8217;ve all heard that baby talk slows language development, instead we should be chatting &#8220;adult-style&#8221; to our newborns. What do they mean exactly by\u00a0<em>Baby Talk<\/em>? According to Lauren Lowrey,<a title=\"Lauren Lowrey\" href=\"http:\/\/www.hanen.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Hanen Certified Speech Language Pathologist,<\/a>\u00a0<em>baby talk<\/em> or <em>motherese<\/em>,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>has a higher-than-normal and more varied pitch, a slower rate of speaking, simpler vocabulary, lots of repetition, emphasis of important words, and exaggerated, positive facial expression.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Think a smiling mommy asking her baby, &#8220;Are you weddy for breffy?&#8221; instead of &#8220;Are you ready for breakfast?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Any type of engagement with your young children is beneficial, and some studies have shown that babies actually react well to baby talk from parents.\u00a0It can\u00a0help them to focus in on your speech patterns, especially amidst\u00a0background noise. If your child is using baby talk to converse with you, don&#8217;t worry about correcting the word right away. In time, your baby will be able to discern what is the &#8220;baby&#8221; version of the real word. However, as your child starts to build his vocabulary and has a few words and phrases under his belt,\u00a0try to model proper language pronunciation when you can. For example, if your son says &#8220;baba&#8221; for bottle, you can respond with &#8220;Do you want your bottle?&#8221; Generally, around the age of three, you can begin to work with your child to stop using baby talk all together, and instead work on the proper names for the things around him.<\/p>\n<h3>False Fact 3: Sign Language Speeds Up\u00a0Language Development<\/h3>\n<p>Sign Language is used by many parents as a way to communicate with a\u00a0child before he or she is able to talk. It has been rumored to actually help babies and toddlers learn to talk faster than normal rates, by increasing vocabulary before he or she\u00a0learns to speak the words. The truth? Using sign language does not translate to accelerated language acquisition for children. According to a study from the University of Hertfordshire in England, Dr Liz Kirk\u00a0found:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Although babies learned the gestures and used them to communicate long before they started talking, they did not learn the associated words any quicker than the non-gesturing babies, nor did they did they show enhanced language development.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div id=\"attachment_343\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/speech110.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-343\" class=\"wp-image-343 size-medium lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/speech110-300x201.jpg\" alt=\"Child Sign Language \" width=\"300\" height=\"201\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/speech110-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/speech110.jpg 800w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/201;\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-343\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Child Sign Language &#8211; Accelerate Language Development? True or False? Image source: <a title=\"rochester.kidsoutandabout.com\" href=\"http:\/\/rochester.kidsoutandabout.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">rochester.kidsoutandabout.com<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<p>Although signing was not found to\u00a0accelerate language development, children who learn simple sign language skills are able to express themselves better even before they learn to speak.\u00a0This results in reduced frustration for your child (and for you) as he learns to communicate. Similarly, Dr. Kirk&#8217;s study indicated that mothers who gestured with their babies were more responsive to their babies\u2019 non-verbal clues.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, there are plenty of time-tested, proven <a title=\"language development activities\" href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/language-development\/talking-tots-toddler-language-development-activities\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">activities<\/a> and resources that you as a parent can try with your children to improve language skills. <a title=\"reading\" href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/news\/language-development-relies-on-conversation-reading-with-kids\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Reading <\/a>with your child, spending time with <a title=\"online language building sites\" href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/speech-therapy-techniques\/top-10-online-sites-for-building-language-skills\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">online language-building sites <\/a>or even just paying attention to recommended language development milestones are all beneficial for your child. Most importantly however, be patient. You know your child best! Don&#8217;t accept false facts about your child&#8217;s language development. In time, your child will be asking your opinion about the 2016 election candidates &#8211; you better be ready!<\/p>\n    <span class=\"hs-cta-wrapper\" id=\"\">\n    <span class=\"hs-cta-node \" id=\"\">\n        <!--[if lte IE 8]><div id=\"hs-cta-ie-element\"><\/div><![endif]-->\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/speechbuddy.com\/guides\/speech-in-schools\"  target=\"_blank\" ><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"hs-cta-img lazyload\" id=\"\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 655px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 655\/211;border-width:0px;\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/3e676eec-ea09-4f7d-af12-2ee5ed1f06c4.png\"  alt=\"Parents' Guide to Speech Therapy in School\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" \/><\/a>\n    <\/span>\n    <\/span>\n    \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As with most\u00a0things, there are common misconceptions about speech and language development in children, undoubtedly confusing all of us parents! 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