{"id":801,"date":"2012-06-01T20:54:27","date_gmt":"2012-06-01T20:54:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/?p=801"},"modified":"2016-01-26T14:52:04","modified_gmt":"2016-01-26T22:52:04","slug":"tips-for-parenting-an-aspergers-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/speech-therapy-techniques\/tips-for-parenting-an-aspergers-child\/","title":{"rendered":"Tips for Parenting an Asperger\u2019s Child"},"content":{"rendered":"
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In 1944, pediatrician Hans Asperger noted the classic behavior patterns of children with Asperger\u2019s syndrome. \u00a0These children have different patterns of speech, impaired social skills, and difficulty displaying empathy. However, as one mom of an autistic child points out, this developmental disorder does not mean that the child has a diminished intelligence. A speech-language pathologist (SLP) can help your Asperger\u2019s child develop his speech and language skills. Talk to the SLP about activities that you can do at home to help your child flourish and avoid social isolation.<\/p>\n

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Your Child\u2019s Environment<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maintain a calm environment for your child whenever possible. When he is less distracted, he might be more able focus on his communication. In particular, children with Asperger\u2019s might be distracted or upset by background noises like a ticking clock. Keep clutter to a minimum and place numerous storage containers in your youngster\u2019s room for his toys. Wall hangings might also be distracting to him. As well, provide your child with a set routine and schedule, along with consistent rules and expectations. When you do at-home speech therapy activities with him, try to schedule it for the same time each day.<\/p>\n

Body Language<\/strong><\/p>\n

Eye Contact<\/span><\/p>\n

Communication skills cover so much more than just spoken and written language. Pay attention to your child\u2019s body language as he talks to people. Children with Asperger\u2019s might not make eye contact. It doesn\u2019t mean that they\u2019re being rude; they\u2019re simply uncomfortable with meeting another person\u2019s gaze. Encourage your child to make eye contact, but do not try to force him to do so. Instead, suggest that he try looking at the person\u2019s forehead or cheeks. He could also try to meet the person\u2019s gaze for a few seconds every so often, or just at the start and end of the conversation. Experiment to determine which method works best for your child.<\/p>\n

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Body Posture<\/span><\/p>\n

Your child might also maintain an abnormal body posture during a conversation. Asperger\u2019s children are also typically unable to pick up cues from another person\u2019s body language and facial expressions. For example, a person might start turning away from your child to indicate the end of a conversation, but your child not understand this and he will continue to talk.<\/p>\n

Your child might benefit from watching TV to learn about body language. Sit down with him and put on his favorite movie<\/a> or show. Point out how one actor uses his body language, gestures, and facial expressions to convey meaning. Ask him to guess at what another actor\u2019s body language might mean. Then, practice using nonverbal cues together. For example, make a happy face and then a sad face at your child and ask him what each means.<\/p>\n

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Pragmatic Language Skills<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your child\u2019s pragmatic language skills refer to his social use of language. Pragmatic language skills include following the rules of language and adapting language to various situations. Nonverbal language, such as eye contact and body posture, are also part of pragmatic language. Children with Asperger\u2019s syndrome typically have trouble understanding and using pragmatic language skills.<\/p>\n

Roleplaying with your child can help him learn about various social situations and appropriate responses to build his conversation skills. For example, sit down with your child and tell him that you are pretending to be a classmate at school. Ask your child what he did the previous weekend. Your child might launch into a detailed list of all the minute activities that took place. Help your child learn that the classmate really wants to know about major events, like going to the park, instead of smaller events like brushing one\u2019s teeth. As well, use roleplaying to help your child learn about abstract language. He might not understand that \u201cLet me see the toy,\u201d really means \u201cLet me hold or play with the toy,\u201d for example. You might also consider Use social stories to help children understand the emotions of the characters<\/a> which are brief descriptions of situations and how a person might respond to them.<\/p>\n \n \n \n \"Parent's<\/a>\n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

In 1944, pediatrician Hans Asperger noted the classic behavior patterns of children with Asperger\u2019s syndrome. \u00a0These children have different patterns of speech, impaired social skills, and difficulty displaying empathy. However, as one mom of an autistic child points out, this developmental disorder does not mean that the child has a diminished intelligence. A speech-language pathologist […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[447,445,446,448,431,449,417],"class_list":["post-801","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-speech-therapy-techniques","tag-aspergers-and-communication-skills","tag-communication-with-aspergers","tag-parenting-an-aspergers-child","tag-parenting-autistic-children","tag-speech-therapy-for-aspergers","tag-speech-therapy-for-autism-spectrum-disorder","tag-symptoms-of-aspergers"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/801","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=801"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/801\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10995,"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/801\/revisions\/10995"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=801"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=801"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=801"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}