{"id":5183,"date":"2013-09-12T15:54:21","date_gmt":"2013-09-12T15:54:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/?p=5183"},"modified":"2023-11-08T10:27:47","modified_gmt":"2023-11-08T18:27:47","slug":"speech-buddies-parents-corner-5-twists-on-traditional-family-meals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/parents-corner\/speech-buddies-parents-corner-5-twists-on-traditional-family-meals\/","title":{"rendered":"Speech Buddies Parents\u2019 Corner \u2013 5 Twists on Traditional Family Meals"},"content":{"rendered":"<a href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-admin\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/uncategorized\/speech-buddies-parents-corner-5-twists-on-traditional-family-meals\/\"><\/a> Image Courtesy of njaes.rutgers.edu\n<p>Creating traditions with your kids is one of the most rewarding parts of parenting, and family meals are the perfect place to start. Even though modern family lives seem to be crowded and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/parents-corner\/speech-buddies-parents-corner-are-your-kids-overscheduled\/?utm_source=rss&amp;utm_medium=rss&amp;utm_campaign=speech-buddies-parents-corner-are-your-kids-overscheduled\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">kids overscheduled<\/a>, there are 5 fun twists you can try with your family meals that will create new traditions and build stronger families. Family meals can even help your kids thrive during the school day \u2013 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cnn.com\/2011\/10\/25\/living\/family-dinner-h\/index.html\">studies show<\/a> that when kids eat with their families more than 3 nights each week, only 9% of them get Cs or lower on their report cards, while 20% of those kids who get family meals less than that get Cs or lower for grades. So whether you\u2019re trying to help your academically challenged child or just ease the family\u2019s chaotic schedule, try these 5 ideas.<!--more--><\/p>\n<h3>1. Family Meals that Take You Travelling<\/h3>\n<p>At your next family meal, have each family member share 3 places in the world to which they would love to travel if they could. Since this probably isn\u2019t actually a possibility in the near future, let your family meals take you there instead. Each week try a new recipe that represents a specific country. You could even assign certain aspects to each child \u2013 dinner music from that country or a table setting that might be typical. If you\u2019re eating a Japanese meal maybe it\u2019s time to swap out the chairs for some floor pillows and gather around the coffee table instead and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.japan-guide.com\/e\/e2005.html\">learn about Japanese table manners<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Family Meals that Share the Joy<\/h3>\n<p>This twist works best with kids who are preschool and older (you can help the younger kids). Assign each family member a course of the meal \u2013 maybe Dad gets the entr\u00e9e and your daughter is responsible for dessert. It doesn\u2019t matter if the food choices really fit well together \u2013 it matters more that everyone feels like they contribute and maybe the wackier the combinations \u2013 the better!<\/p>\n<h3>3. Family Meals that Aren\u2019t About the Food<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/thefamilydinnerproject.org\/resources\/faq\/\">Researchers and parents know<\/a> that the food served is only half the story when it comes to why eating as a family is important. Use your family meals to get to know and appreciate everyone in the family even better with this simple dinnertime activity.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Take an empty mason jar, vase, or other container for your centerpiece.<\/li>\n<li>Put into that container slips of paper with questions that help a person share more about themselves with their family members \u2013 maybe things that should be obvious but sometimes just aren\u2019t.<\/li>\n<li>Everyone in the family can take turns drawing a question, reading it aloud, and then answering it. Some ideas for questions include:\n<ul>\n<li>What is the strangest dream you\u2019ve ever had?<\/li>\n<li>What is the worst movie you\u2019ve ever watched and why?<\/li>\n<li>If you could travel to any place tomorrow, where would it be and why?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div style=\"width: 330px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-admin\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/uncategorized\/speech-buddies-parents-corner-5-twists-on-traditional-family-meals\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazyload\" title=\"Get to know each other at family meals\" data-src=\"http:\/\/www.incourage.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/dinner-questions.jpg\" alt=\"Get to know each other at family meals\" width=\"320\" height=\"213\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 320px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 320\/213;\" \/><\/a><p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Courtesy of www.incourage.me<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The possibilities for these questions are endless, and so is the fun you can have when you get to know everyone around the table even more. The conversation starters are even great tools for kids who need practice with <a href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/speech-therapy-techniques\/at-home-speech-therapy-techniques-for-boosting-receptive-language-skills\/\">speaking and listening skills<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Family Meals that Start Early<\/h3>\n<p>Let the kids plan a meal for the week, then take them shopping to find the best deals for the ingredients they\u2019ll need. Only offer as much help as to make sure that the activity is safe, and let the kids take the lead. Even if your 1<sup>st<\/sup> grader just makes the best PB&amp;J sandwiches with a side of apple sauce sprinkled with cookie decorations for dessert, enjoy the night off of cooking and the pride your child will feel.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Family Meals that are About Family<\/h3>\n<p>Serve family meals that come from family recipes. Maybe someone in the family inherited Grandma\u2019s cookbook, or you can ask for family recipes from your cousins on Facebook. These recipes often include simple ingredients and reflect your family\u2019s heritage.<\/p>\n<div style=\"width: 799px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-admin\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/uncategorized\/speech-buddies-parents-corner-5-twists-on-traditional-family-meals\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazyload\" title=\"Importance of Family Meals\" data-src=\"http:\/\/thf_media.s3.amazonaws.com\/familyfacts\/charts\/459-FF-download.jpg\" alt=\"Importance of Family Meals\" width=\"789\" height=\"1026\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 789px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 789\/1026;\" \/><\/a><p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Courtesy of www.familyfacts.org<\/p><\/div>\n<p>No matter what type of family meals you serve, your family will benefit from this time spent together. Who knows, maybe one of these 5 twists will become a new family tradition for <i>your <\/i>kids to pass on to <i>their <\/i>children!<\/p>\n    <span class=\"hs-cta-wrapper\" id=\"\">\n    <span class=\"hs-cta-node \" id=\"\">\n        <!--[if lte IE 8]><div id=\"hs-cta-ie-element\"><\/div><![endif]-->\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/speechbuddy.com\/guides\/home-reinforcement\"  target=\"_blank\" ><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"hs-cta-img lazyload\" id=\"\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 655px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 655\/211;border-width:0px;\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/c78fe25c-44cd-4524-b653-8dbaf50c20f2.png\"  alt=\"Parents' Guide to Reinforcing Speech Therapy at Home\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" \/><\/a>\n    <\/span>\n    <\/span>\n    \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Creating traditions with your kids is one of the most rewarding parts of parenting, and family meals are the perfect place to start. Even though modern family lives seem to be crowded and kids overscheduled, there are 5 fun twists you can try with your family meals that will create new traditions and build stronger [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":33,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1323],"tags":[1414,1420,1422,1329,1421],"class_list":["post-5183","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-parents-corner","tag-family","tag-family-meals","tag-family-time","tag-parents-corner-2","tag-recipes"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5183","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/33"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5183"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5183\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12261,"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5183\/revisions\/12261"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5183"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5183"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5183"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}