{"id":4925,"date":"2013-08-19T15:03:40","date_gmt":"2013-08-19T15:03:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/?p=4925"},"modified":"2023-11-08T10:27:14","modified_gmt":"2023-11-08T18:27:14","slug":"is-my-child-reaching-communication-milestones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/language-development\/is-my-child-reaching-communication-milestones\/","title":{"rendered":"Is My Child Reaching Communication Milestones?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4928\" style=\"width: 287px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/language-development-2\/is-my-child-reaching-communication-milestones\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4928\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4928 lazyload\" title=\"Reaching Communication Milestones\" data-src=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/download.jpg\" alt=\"Reaching Communication Milestones\" width=\"277\" height=\"182\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 277px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 277\/182;\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4928\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Courtesy of specialeducationadvisor.com<\/p><\/div>\n<h2>Questions Parents Must Ask Themselves<\/h2>\n<p>Since the day (or even before) your child was born you likely have had questions tumbling through your mind about everything from diaper choices to healthy growth and development. Your elementary age child has grown beyond those first steps, but still has many communication milestones to reach. If you are concerned that your child isn\u2019t on track for these, there are several questions you must ask.<!--more--><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4929\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/question.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4929\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4929 lazyload\" title=\"Questions about communication milestones\" data-src=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/question.jpg\" alt=\"Questions about communication milestones\" width=\"290\" height=\"402\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/question.jpg 290w, https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/question-216x300.jpg 216w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 290px) 100vw, 290px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 290px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 290\/402;\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4929\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Courtesy of autismspectrumalliance.com<\/p><\/div>\n<h2>Questions to Ask Yourself About Communication Milestones<\/h2>\n<p>The first questions you need to ask are to yourself, as a parent. Be sure to also ask your partner because the perception each of you have might not be the same, and when you combine your ideas you might get a more complete picture of your child&#8217;s communication milestones. Your child\u2019s healthcare professional only sees a small window of your child\u2019s life, so your concerns and your observations are vital when <a href=\"http:\/\/www.aafp.org\/afp\/2011\/0515\/p1183.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">determining if your child has a measurable communication delay<\/a>. When you have considered the answers to these following questions, you\u2019ll be more prepared to meet with your child\u2019s healthcare provider, school personnel, and others, such as speech therapists or audiologists.<\/p>\n<h3>How do my child\u2019s communication skills affect his daily life at home?<\/h3>\n<p>Consider how communication milestones \u2013 speaking, listening, non-verbal communication, etc. \u2013 play a part in the activities your child does on a regular basis and the relationships with the people in the home.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Listening to age-appropriate oral instructions of multiple steps (i.e. Brush your teeth, feed the fish, and then put away your game before bath time.)<\/li>\n<li>Paying attention to the conversations in the home and participating in them in age-appropriate ways<\/li>\n<li>Demonstrating age-appropriate reading and writing (i.e. a 3<sup>rd<\/sup> grader reading to himself before bedtime or a 1<sup>st<\/sup> grader writing his own name, address, etc.)<\/li>\n<li>Showing interest in <a href=\"http:\/\/presencelearning.com\/blog\/reading-with-your-child-to-enhance-communication-skills\/\">engaging in activities that involve reading<\/a> and writing outside of the classroom<\/li>\n<li>Watching television or listening to music at appropriate volume levels<\/li>\n<li>Answering your questions with age-appropriate clarity<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>How do my child\u2019s communication skills affect his life with friends, peers, and in social settings?<\/h3>\n<p>Think about the times when you see your child interacting with friends, participating in peer-related activities, or in the general community. Those interactions can also be clues to communication development issues.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Interacting with friends through appropriate verbal communication (asks questions, let others know ideas and opinions through spoken words)<\/li>\n<li>Participating in peer-group activities with appropriate attention level (not wandering off by himself)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Do people outside of the family understand my child\u2019s verbal communication?<\/h3>\n<p>Sometimes family members don\u2019t realize how significant a speech problem is because they are used to hearing the speech patterns every day. As children enter elementary school their speech should be understandable by strangers and acquaintances to a high level. If you notice that people are consistently asking your child to slow down, repeat the questions or phrase, then this might be signal to you that there is a speech problem.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4930\" style=\"width: 528px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/listening-comprehension-pyramid.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4930\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4930 lazyload\" title=\"Skills for communication milestones\" data-src=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/listening-comprehension-pyramid.jpg\" alt=\"Image Courtesy of familyonbikes.com\" width=\"518\" height=\"359\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 518px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 518\/359;\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4930\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Courtesy of familyonbikes.com<\/p><\/div>\n<h3>What academic areas concern me when it comes to my child\u2019s communication milestones?<\/h3>\n<p>Communication <a href=\"http:\/\/www.edutopia.org\/blog\/literacy-instruction-across-curriculum-importance\">encompasses many different areas of learning<\/a> and problems with communication skills can lead to below average school performances or school anxiety.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Reading and writing at grade level<\/li>\n<li>Participating orally in class<\/li>\n<li>Answering teachers\u2019 questions thoughtfully (age-appropriate levels)<\/li>\n<li>Paying attention in classes, especially to lectures and oral directions<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/patch.com\/new-york\/whiteplains\/bp--social-communication-skills-that-all-kids-need\">Communicating with peers in class<\/a> at an appropriate level<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>When communication problems are suspected or exist they can sometimes be the result of a single issue \u2013 such as a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/speech-therapist\/will-my-child-outgrow-his-speech-impediment\/\">specific articulation problem<\/a> in a kindergarten student that can be outgrown. Other times the communication issues can be the symptoms of a larger, more all-encompassing and overwhelming disorder or condition, such as autism. Work with your school, healthcare specialists, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/speech-therapist\/top-6-questions-to-ask-your-childs-speech-therapist\/\">speech therapists, and audiologists to answer these questions<\/a> and more. Communication milestones are your guideposts for your child\u2019s health and whenever you have any concerns, it\u2019s time to start asking questions \u2013 and ask yourself, first.<\/p>\n    <span class=\"hs-cta-wrapper\" id=\"\">\n    <span class=\"hs-cta-node \" id=\"\">\n        <!--[if lte IE 8]><div id=\"hs-cta-ie-element\"><\/div><![endif]-->\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/speechbuddy.com\/guides\/communication-challenges\" ><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"hs-cta-img lazyload\" id=\"\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 655px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 655\/211;border-width:0px;\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/533600a3-8950-4500-aa3b-fab8818be024.png\"  alt=\"Parent's Guide to Speech & Communication Challenges\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" \/><\/a>\n    <\/span>\n    <\/span>\n    \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Questions Parents Must Ask Themselves Since the day (or even before) your child was born you likely have had questions tumbling through your mind about everything from diaper choices to healthy growth and development. 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