{"id":119,"date":"2012-02-14T16:38:55","date_gmt":"2012-02-14T16:38:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/?p=119"},"modified":"2015-02-17T16:46:28","modified_gmt":"2015-02-18T00:46:28","slug":"how-to-help-your-child-cope","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/speech-disorders\/how-to-help-your-child-cope\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Help Your Child Cope"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_120\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/speech9.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-120\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-120 lazyload\" title=\"Mother Comforting Child\" data-src=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/speech9-300x203.jpg\" alt=\"Mother Comforting Child\" width=\"300\" height=\"203\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/speech9-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/speech9.jpg 493w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/203;\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-120\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image source: tyingheartstrings.com<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Arranging for treatment for your child\u2019s speech disorder can use up a lot of time and energy. It can be stressful to make sure that your child has everything he needs to succeed, but it is also important to pay attention to the possible signs of stress that he may exhibit. Children may become frustrated when they cannot readily communicate, particularly if they become aware that their patterns of speech are different from the patterns of speech of other children.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>You may notice that your child manifests his frustration with his speech disorder by altering his behavior. Some children may become anxious and depressed, while others may exhibit aggressive behavior. Some children simply give up their attempts to communicate, finding it too difficult. Observe your child\u2019s behavior and tailor your response to suit his emotional needs.<\/p>\n<p>While it is important to encourage your child to \u201cuse his words,\u201d if this becomes exceedingly frustrating for him, consider alternative methods of communication. Teach your child some simple signs that he can use to replace everyday words, such as \u201chelp,\u201d \u201chungry,\u201d \u201cthirsty,\u201d and \u201csleepy.\u201d For example, you can teach your child to cover his eyes with his hands if he\u2019s sleepy, pat his tummy if he\u2019s hungry, or mimic raising a cup if he\u2019s thirsty. When your child uses a sign, say the corresponding word for him to help reinforce his understanding of the word.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_122\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/speech8.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-122\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-122 lazyload\" title=\"Parents Taking Child for Walk\" data-src=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/speech8-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Parents Taking Child for Walk\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/speech8-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/speech8.jpg 533w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/225;\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-122\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image source: catholique-chalons-en-champagne.cef.fr<\/p><\/div>\n<p>When your child becomes tired of trying to speak, interact with him nonverbally. Encourage your child to express himself in ways that do not frustrate him. Draw a picture with him or play peek-a-boo. Take him for a walk in the park, bake his favorite treat, or play with Play-Doh. It\u2019s important to work on communication activities between speech therapy sessions, but it is equally essential to let your child relax and enjoy himself.<\/p>\n<p>Some children become frustrated when they need to repeat themselves to be understood. Over time, you will likely learn your child\u2019s frequently used phrases and be able to decipher them quickly. If you have trouble deciphering something he says, try repeating it silently to yourself before you ask him to repeat it. You could also try carrying around a small tape recorder to play back the sounds he uses.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_121\" style=\"width: 294px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/speech7.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-121\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121 lazyload\" title=\"Father Talking to Son\" data-src=\"http:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/speech7.jpg\" alt=\"Father Talking to Son\" width=\"284\" height=\"213\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 284px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 284\/213;\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-121\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image source: therounds.stanly.org<\/p><\/div>\n<p>It can be more difficult to protect your child from experiencing frustrations outside the home. Talk to his teachers and his friends\u2019 parents. Advise them on the most effective ways of communicating with your child. Encourage your child to play with his peers to support his social development. Bring him to a playgroup and sign him up for preschool or parent-toddler classes.<\/p>\n<p>You can help your child cope with his speech disorder by simply letting him know that you understand how frustrating it is for him. Speak to him in a calm, reassuring voice and tell him that it\u2019s okay to have problems with words. Remind him that everybody has things that they do well and things that they struggle with. Praise him for the things that he does well, like painting, drawing, or even tying his shoes.<\/p>\n    <span class=\"hs-cta-wrapper\" id=\"\">\n    <span class=\"hs-cta-node \" id=\"\">\n        <!--[if lte IE 8]><div id=\"hs-cta-ie-element\"><\/div><![endif]-->\n        <a href=\"http:\/\/speechbuddy.com\/guides\/home-reinforcement\"  target=\"_blank\" ><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"hs-cta-img lazyload\" id=\"\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 655px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 655\/211;border-width:0px;\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.speechbuddy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/c78fe25c-44cd-4524-b653-8dbaf50c20f2.png\"  alt=\"Parents' Guide to Reinforcing Speech Therapy at Home\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" \/><\/a>\n    <\/span>\n    <\/span>\n    \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Arranging for treatment for your child\u2019s speech disorder can use up a lot of time and energy. It can be stressful to make sure that your child has everything he needs to succeed, but it is also important to pay attention to the possible signs of stress that he may exhibit. 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